Once again, it has been quite a while between my posts. It really all goes back to the earlier post "Life gets in the way of itself". Busy busy busy.
Actually, it's not that I've been any busier than usual. I mean, there are the everyday chores, the doctor visits for Lady M and the Twins that she is "brewing", that thing called "work", and the training for the upcoming Karate test in August (this one's sure to be a doozy), but really, nothing "extra". I've just put the blogging on the waaay back burner. Enough excuses?
OK.
Lately I have been pondering perspectives. I ponder frequently, and try to do so from different points of view when possible. What got me started on this particular ponder was a recent softball game.
I play in a local "bar league" (AKA "lolly-pop ball") and this year am the manager of my team. (This sort of fell in my lap by default.) We play only on Wednesday nights, and have a blast each time we play. There are quite a few of my "co-workers" from the paper mill on the team, as well as pals from outside the mill. Many of us are former college players, either softball or another competitive sport. Now, we are older, wiser, and have day jobs. We are in the "B", or maybe even "C" league. I don't know which letter, but it's really more of a "beginner" league. We don't even have playoffs at the end of the season. I think the idea is for teams to earn their way into the "A" bracket, but we see things a bit differently, it seems. We are PERFECTLY content where we are.
We get together on Wednesday nights and play in the dirt. We try to tell ourselves that we don't care if we win or not, but being the natural competitors that we are, deep down we really want to score more runs than the other team. BUT, regardless of the final score, we have FUN. We blow off steam, we goof off, we take too long getting on or off the field (not on purpose, of course).
Here's where the perspective thing comes in. The other teams seem to take it so much more seriously. (I guess they really want to get to the "A" division.) They get upset when they make an error, and by upset, I mean angry. The umpires also get their panties in a twist on occasion. Very few smiles when things are going a bit awry.
This isn't the MAJOR LEAGUE for Pete sake!
We must drive them all crazy! We simply enjoy getting out there on the field. What is the difference? Are we more well-adjusted and happier with our lives? Perhaps.
I'm thinking, though, that we, as individuals and as a group, simply look at things from a different point of view. Our team consists of two current Div. I college softball coaches - they get paid to win games; numerous former scholarship players - they too, in effect, were paid to play; and quite a few people who are responsible for the lives and well-being of many people on a daily basis.
When Wednesday night comes around, it's all about the bat, the ball, and the dirt. It's fun. There is no pressure (as long as we have enough players....which is another perspective in and of itself).
My personal point of view, as team manager, has shifted slightly since last year. Although I have a ton of fun at the games, I do find my own panties in a twist each week as we scramble to find enough players from our roster to field a team. Most of the time we manage to get at least 9 together for a game. Then, the lineup must be done. My method of creating the lineup, prior to tonight, was ALPHABETICALLY. Do you think that is how they do it in the Majors? Tonight, I decided to live on the edge and go completely at random.
The absolute best part of all of this? Despite our fun-loving, care-free attitude and "strategically masterminded" line-ups, we have managed to WIN all of our games thus far!
Of course, it is not about winning or losing. Every one knows that it's how you play the game. Beyond that, however, it is how you perceive the game (life). There is a time and a place to be serious, no doubt. It is during those in between times (the "Wednesdays") that we should all take a moment or two to just go play in the dirt.
